I’ve often found that, whilst agreeing with what you say, there is a flip side to it. I think it kind of depends on the age of the person you are talking to I myself am 43 but sometimes when I date younger people I find that they don’t know how to deal with emotional vulnerability and so when you are too open and vulnerable about your own life and your own past even if it is well resolved in your own had and you put it across that way they automatically seem to write you off as a psycho, or, an even more annoying term “ someone with baggage”, which consequently makes them run a mile. I myself am the well resolved type, quite willing to do this. Perhaps i do it a little too soon? What’s your take on this?